・・・but I am not talking about "beautiful face".

Sad though, I cannot say "beautiful face is the most important thing for women!"
how can i?
( i don't have beautiful face ... )

I meant face for "expression".
and most important thing is "smile"♪

Men like someone who has nice smile even if she is not that pretty,
Men don't prefer to be with woman who doesn't have any emotion on her face
even if she is very beautiful.
I can assure about this!!!!

There is so many kinds of smile!

Smile when you laugh really hard.

Smile when you've done something naughty.

Smile when you made some mistake.

Smile when you're embarrassed.

.... and so on.
all those smiles are much nicer than being a smug looking♪（^-^）
what do you think?

But there are so many people who don't know about their "face".

Especially when you come to front of someone who you really like,
your put very awkward smile on your face...
( even though, this is the time you've gotta show the guy your cutest smile you've ever had!)

If you see women who can smile naturally any time and to anyone,
those women often do some practice and put a lot of efforts in their smile.

Well, I don't want to show off myself though・・・（^o^ゞ

I sften get words from other people...
" your smile is like Buddha! "
or
" your smile heals my heart!"

... thank you for all those nice words.

Being is counselor, I have to thank to my smile.
Because of my this smile,
people who came to me could really relax and could really talk to me.

Was it really sound like "show off"??
I am sorry. Lol.

Well, I really didn't mean in that way.

That was the story right now though,
before I was a gilr who really "homely"... really.
No one can imagine how "homely" i was before.

I have really big mouth,
and when I laughed, my voice was really sounded awful.

My brothers gave me an awful nickname from my laughing voice.
When I was in elementary school,
boys in my class often said to me
"it sounds super digcusting when you laugh!!!" ・・・(T◇T)

At the time I also had an awful hairstyle which was one of anime charactor had it,
that hairstyle was very cute for anime charactor, but it was not for me (＠_＠;)

I had a huge complex about my laugh.

When I became teenager,
I roused myself to make me change!!
And I started to check my smile front of mirror,
and I practied.. "how to smile nicely.
( I changed my hair-style too!)

Lately "smile class" is exist( which is the place people can learn how to smile nicely!)
But at the time when I was in the age which I needed to have those class,
there was no such a class or course.
So I did it all by myself

And I found out that smile is quite difficult thing!
Because I wasn't used to smile,
so I needed to make my muscle to used to for that.

What kind of shape is best for my mouth..?
What kind of face should my eyes make ...?
How does my face look like in total?

I used so much muscles in my face,
I always had a big sore in my face after that practice.
oh no...

My big discover at the time was my normal face!
My face was always like this →(￣へ￣) until there was some funny thing.

Because of my complex about my smile,
I was used not to smile,
so I looked like I was always in bad mood

Until I had started practice to have nice smile on my face,
I thought all my emotion was always on my face!!
So I didn't realise that I always looked like being in bad mood.

I am pretty sure that I was "homely" before.

I really wanted to change my self.
So I practied every night front of mirror,
and I always tried to do my best and put nice smile on my face during day time.

And what do you think what happened to me after all?

... People around me were changing attitude to me!

People who had been very brusque with me,
changed their attitide into very friendly and kind.

I just tried to ve very careful with my face( not to be like this→(￣へ￣) )
I didn't care about the way I speak.

So I noticed my emotion my face had changed their reaction!!!

In Japanese we say
" other people are your mirror!"
I learned it by my experience.
If you change, other will change!

Amazing thing was how much guys changed their attitude to me!

They changed into such a gentle man in the end.
So I thought "guys are such a kind creatures!"
amazing how much i and other can change, huh?

So I know now, men's weak point is women's smile!

Long time in Japan we said,
"white skin covers 7 troubles!".
But nowadays I think
"nice smile covers 7 troubles!"
I still have a big mouth though,
this month is very important for my smile!

so what do you think?
how is your face?

Do you have confidance in your "face"( smile )?

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