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　◆　today's topic
real case: how to handle your annoying e-mail friend?(2)

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Dear kako,

thank you for your answer,
it's been a week since I started to talk to him by e-mail.

"How much ( for sex)? "
that he asked me at first time,
so I thought he was a one of them who pays girls and have sex.

I should have realised that "he is not a normal guy", but I couldn't.

He also told me that he makes money from having sex with women,
that because he doesn't have any good education background, so that is the only way...
Again I should have realised that he is such a kind of guy.

And I don't remember details any more,
but when he said to me "i gonna kill myself!" and "you're a liar",
I said " I am sorry" to him.

I don't know, but that's why he became like this?
But I couldn't say anything strong or hard to him...（＞＿＜）

He had knew my cell phon's e-mail address, but I changed it.
Because I didn't want get any e-mail from him.

I hope that he was just enjoying to see me in fear like you told me before.

I have been wondering...
is it really possible that we read and understand other people's caractor?

Shiori

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Dear Shiori

I see.
if it's been just a week, then there is nothing you need to worried about（^-^）
If it's been a month or half year, then you need to think about it again.
plus he told you that how he makes money,
so even if you tell something to him(it's not good or anything), he doesn't listen anyway.

As long as you keep ignoring him,
I am pretty sure he will give up, and stop talking to you.

There are so many guy who is super smart
even if they are not from famous university.
But sadly, I don't think he is so.
So even if you make a plan to make him stop,
I don't think it will work like you planned.

Just do not stimulate him
otherwise, it can be dengerous

You told me that he asked you
how much does it cost to have sex with you?
Right?
He was trying to put a price on you.

And you continued to talk to him even after he gave you such a question.
So he continued too.

So if you think he presumed on you, that is absolutely right.
( i am sorry that I am so direct)

Often men use and recieve "word" very directly.
He wasn't exception.

For example,
when you're thirsty
women say to other people
"don't you want to have a cup tea?"

but men say to other people
"I want to have a cup of tea!"

So talking to men,
you really need to tell your feeling!
If you don't like something, you need to say "no!"
If you don't want something, you need to say "I dont want to"

Otherwise men cannot tell your feelings.

Plus, a sentence "I am sorry" can be differnt meannings depends on men or women,

You told me that you said sorry" to him.
and I am sure that you said sorry
because you thought you gave him a bad feeling.

But it wasn't same for him.
He thought you said sorry to him,
because you declined his request or i should say demand.

So he might think that you are thinking to him
" i am so sorry to said no to your request"
Which means he still believes that
you are kind of woman which says "yes"
if he continues to talk to you.

But of course, you don't change your style,
so he is frustrated, and keep sending you e-mails.
and plus he anyway succeed to give you a fear.

That's why he founds it funny to send you e-mails.

So as long as you keep having strong atitude to him,
then it will be fine!

Woman's a noncommittal attitude gives men a wrong information,
So we all women need to be very careful!

Anyway I am 100% sure that
changing e-mail address is more than enough to avoid him.

He is not gonna do anything!
You don't need to worry too much!

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A person you cannot see is very scary, don't you think?

If your out of the circle,
you don't know why she is so scared of the guy who she dosen't even met.
But if you're her, you would understand her feeling 100%.

It still continues.

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◆　afterwords

I got a very happy news !

A person who i was working for before I was working in company
is getting married!

It's always nice to hear from past!

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