"don't u wanna know his feeling?"tag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2009://92009-10-13T10:52:45ZMovable Type 3.21-jaPlease wait before the actiontag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2009://9.4562009-02-14T23:49:51Z2009-10-13T10:52:45Z ...Kako
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◆ please wait before the action!
Why am I saying "wait"?
Because most of women who over 25 years old
are seeing "marrige" and "relationship" at the same time.
So men who are having relationship with them
also need to think about "marrige" and "relationship".
Of course men also would like to be married
if they can meet nice woman on certain timing.
But nowadays men want to enjoy their single life as much as they can,
then they start to think about "marrige".
So it's more difficult to have relationship with those men than students.
Of course!
I've written before
> It's not easy for women who thinking about "marrige"
> to make the action for relationship from women's side.
I asked couple times to my guy friends about this topic.
(they're helping me a lot to write this blog and e-book!)
they told me that
they're always HAPPY if women who are under 25 years old
come to them and start action from women's side.
But
they need to think about it for cases over 25 years women.
Men who has strong responsibility always think about
"marrige" = BIG responsibility.
so they become very careful and think a lot before starting "relationship".
That's why WOMEN NEED TO GRAB MAN's HEART FOR SURE!
and make sure man thinks "I don't want anyone to take her from me!!"
otherwise, it's very difficult to have relationship which connect to "marrige".
Next e-book,
I would like to write about techniques especially for over 25 years old woman.
So please be patient if you don't have enough confident to make a action.
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◆ afterwords
I've been writing this blog for 50 times!!
Time goes very fast.
What should I write for 100 times blog!
But first I need to do things in front of me!
kako.
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H P・・・http://for-precious.com/
relationship & marriage counseling for women , Precious
◇If you do not want to receive this e-mail magazine any more,
then please go to the blog site, and follow the process on there. m(__)m
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how to handle your annoying e-mail friend? (2)tag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2009://9.4552009-01-09T23:35:15Z2009-08-18T12:14:59Z ...Kako
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◆ today's topic
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Dear kako,
thank you for your answer,
it's been a week since I started to talk to him by e-mail.
"How much ( for sex)? "
that he asked me at first time,
so I thought he was a one of them who pays girls and have sex.
I should have realised that "he is not a normal guy", but I couldn't.
He also told me that he makes money from having sex with women,
that because he doesn't have any good education background, so that is the only way...
Again I should have realised that he is such a kind of guy.
And I don't remember details any more,
but when he said to me "i gonna kill myself!" and "you're a liar",
I said " I am sorry" to him.
I don't know, but that's why he became like this?
But I couldn't say anything strong or hard to him...（＞＿＜）
He had knew my cell phon's e-mail address, but I changed it.
Because I didn't want get any e-mail from him.
I hope that he was just enjoying to see me in fear like you told me before.
I have been wondering...
is it really possible that we read and understand other people's caractor?
Shiori
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Dear Shiori
I see.
if it's been just a week, then there is nothing you need to worried about（^-^）
If it's been a month or half year, then you need to think about it again.
plus he told you that how he makes money,
so even if you tell something to him(it's not good or anything), he doesn't listen anyway.
As long as you keep ignoring him,
I am pretty sure he will give up, and stop talking to you.
There are so many guy who is super smart
even if they are not from famous university.
But sadly, I don't think he is so.
So even if you make a plan to make him stop,
I don't think it will work like you planned.
Just do not stimulate him
otherwise, it can be dengerous
You told me that he asked you
how much does it cost to have sex with you?
Right?
He was trying to put a price on you.
And you continued to talk to him even after he gave you such a question.
So he continued too.
So if you think he presumed on you, that is absolutely right.
( i am sorry that I am so direct)
Often men use and recieve "word" very directly.
He wasn't exception.
For example,
when you're thirsty
women say to other people
"don't you want to have a cup tea?"
but men say to other people
"I want to have a cup of tea!"
So talking to men,
you really need to tell your feeling!
If you don't like something, you need to say "no!"
If you don't want something, you need to say "I dont want to"
Otherwise men cannot tell your feelings.
Plus, a sentence "I am sorry" can be differnt meannings depends on men or women,
You told me that you said sorry" to him.
and I am sure that you said sorry
because you thought you gave him a bad feeling.
But it wasn't same for him.
He thought you said sorry to him,
because you declined his request or i should say demand.
So he might think that you are thinking to him
" i am so sorry to said no to your request"
Which means he still believes that
you are kind of woman which says "yes"
if he continues to talk to you.
But of course, you don't change your style,
so he is frustrated, and keep sending you e-mails.
and plus he anyway succeed to give you a fear.
That's why he founds it funny to send you e-mails.
So as long as you keep having strong atitude to him,
then it will be fine!
Woman's a noncommittal attitude gives men a wrong information,
So we all women need to be very careful!
Anyway I am 100% sure that
changing e-mail address is more than enough to avoid him.
He is not gonna do anything!
You don't need to worry too much!
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A person you cannot see is very scary, don't you think?
If your out of the circle,
you don't know why she is so scared of the guy who she dosen't even met.
But if you're her, you would understand her feeling 100%.
It still continues.
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◆ afterwords
I got a very happy news !
A person who i was working for before I was working in company
is getting married!
It's always nice to hear from past!
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H P・・・http://for-precious.com/
relationship & marriage counseling for women , Precious
◇If you do not want to receive this e-mail magazine any more,
then please go to the blog site, and follow the process on there. m(__)m
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how to handle your annoying e-mail friend?tag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2009://9.4542008-12-28T22:04:29Z2009-02-19T23:43:42Z ...Kako
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◆ today's topic
real case; how to handle your annoying e-mail friend?
This story started from one of place on internet
where people talk about their problems.
I got know her when I'd just started this business( being relationship counselor),
She was telling her problem in the place on internet.
And I made a comment for her problem.
After that I've started to talk to her privately.
but she didn't know about my job ( I didn't tell her about it).
So considering all that, please read this.
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Hi Kako,
I've already told you about it on internet though,
I've been in a situation...
he is two years older than me and living in xx.
he told me his full name at first time,
but the name is too ordinary, and i really do suspect about it. now
anyway thing starts when he said to me
"If I see your face, i will be happy.
so send me your picture, if you don't i gonna kill myself!"
I answered him which saying "I don't want to send my picture"
then he said "you're lier", "i gonna kill myself!"
I was very shocked and scared by his words.
and end of e-mail he was saying
"i am never gonna forget your name! never."
it sounds so scary to me,,,
i am very worried now.
if he try to find my home address ... or something...
if you have some ideas,
could you tell me what should i do?
could you give me an advice?
I am so scared of checking e-mails lately.
Shiori.
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Dear Shiori
I understand your situation, but don't worry to much!
Does he have your main e-mail address?
How long have you been having a contact with him?
If you can, can you answer these my questions?
After reading e-mail from you,
i am pretty sure that he is fine!
He is sending you e-mail everyday,
but he hasn't done anything else to you, has he?
If he hasn't, I guess he is just having fun scaring you.
Let's decide what you gonna do after we find out his personality,
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continue....
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◆ afterwords
Everyone can get in trouble if you live as a woman.
So we need to know when we need to be careful.
and when you know strange men really do exist in this world,
we need to be very careful with them.
I also had experienced awful situations,
so I really don't want anyone to have those bad experience.
This is simply a my wish.
and I would like to help it out for you.
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H P・・・http://for-precious.com/
relationship & marriage counseling for women , Precious
◇If you do not want to receive this e-mail magazine any more,
then please go to the blog site, and follow the process on there. m(__)m
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am i already talking about next e-book?tag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2009://9.4532008-12-19T20:10:51Z2009-02-19T23:41:09Z ...Kako
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the e-book i've just made was actually mostly for students,
the reason was there is a lot of students who reading this blog( mail magazine ).
And I wanted do my best for those young people too,
that's why I first made a free e-book for them.
But at the same time, I believe that there is no generations for relationship.
so I can guarantee that the e-book is for everyone from 0 to 100!!
( but men shouldn't take everything for your skills,)
A bit of suprisingly 30% of men downloaded the e-book.
I really hope it can help you though,
please do not follow everything.
You may able to do opposite of things instead of doing right things.
please read and think carefully.
someday, I'd like to make e-book for men too.
and thema will be " how to be a popular men among girls!"
I will remember that.
but I wouldn't tell you how to get girls easily to have just a sex!
What you want is just a sex, you'd better go to another place.
Especially girls who are reading this blog( e-mail magazine ), they are not for you!
are you asking me why?
Of course that I will teach girls not to be with such guys.
anyway, in my blog women are my priority （^_-）☆
◆ am i already talking about next e-book?
what kind of thema i really want to make a e-book for is
"how to make the guy who you like to say "love you" to you".
It's tough for everyone to approach someone,
but especially for women who are thinking about marriage.
So here is a technique I would like to teach you!
which I call "sasoi-mizu(prime the pump) technique.
In this technique, there is some adult taste.
but I am not talking about anything "sexy".
All the technique of "orime the pump" are very orthodox.
( but I am still formulating a plot)
Anyway, i am thinking to talk about this technique in next blog.
Especially women who want to have a relationship which gonna connect for marriage,
you've gotta read next blog!
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◆ afterwords
A man who gave me a big push to start this my work,
he is doing a counseling dased on fortune-telling.
Today he asked me; " why don't you give any seminar?"
He knows that i used to have a lot of situation speaking front of may people.
But this year, I would like to build up my work,
and next year!
next year I would love to do counseling with him.
He is an amazing fortune-teller,
he really can tell your future and give you a exact advice.
I will introduce him to you soon!
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H P・・・http://for-precious.com/
relationship & marriage counseling for women , Precious
◇If you do not want to receive this e-mail magazine any more,
then please go to the blog site, and follow the process on there. m(__)m
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◆all the answers from last questionnarire
○what kind of technique for your relationship would you like to know?
★answers from women,
top: technique to get back together. (24 votes) 20％
second; how to be popular from guys (19votes) 16％
third: To have better relationship with boyfriend (18votes) 15％
★answers from men
top: how to be popular from girls (13votes) 11％
second: how to tell my feeling to the girl who I like (8votes) 7％
third: how to get back together. (4votes) 3％
to have better relationship with my girlfriend. (4votes) 3％
It seems a lot of women strongly want to get back together
before I were doing counseling for marriege couples about their problems though,
lately i am getting more and more counseling for "get back to gether".
I would like to talk about this in other time.
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◆ afterwords
I finished one big thing,
and now, an another project popped into my head too.
I am thinking about something I can get even closer to everyone!
everytime I see one of each of you's feeling,
I can see the way that I should go too!
I would love to help for your hopes（*^-^*）
see you in next time
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H P・・・http://for-precious.com/
relationship & marriage counseling for women , Precious
◇If you do not want to receive this e-mail magazine any more,
then please go to the blog site, and follow the process on there. m(__)m
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e-book( Japanese only )tag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2008://9.4392008-11-01T10:03:01Z2008-11-25T11:00:25Z ...Kako
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I've been working so hard to finish up this special e-book.
But I am sorry, it exist just only in Japanese,
Main topic in this e-book is how to make your love hopeful!!
but this e-book is not only for single, but also for women who already have partner.
but again I am sorry, it's not in English.
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At this moment, I am super busy working for e-book though.
It will come out very soon.
Even when I finish this e-book, there are a lot counselings to do...
do my best!!
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H P・・・http://for-precious.com/
relationship & marriage counseling for women , Precious
◇If you do not want to receive this e-mail magazine any more,
then please go to the blog site, and follow the process on there. m(__)m
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how to find a wealthy man!?tag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2008://9.4222008-10-15T11:09:43Z2008-11-25T10:41:36Z ...Kako
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As you can imagine, it's tough to find someone who is wealthy!
high birth man means his family backgraound is totally diffrent from ordinary folks,
so of course he has different life style and values of life.
because of all those differences, there are a lot of couple cannot get along in the end.
I think best of way of marring into money is not to get married with high birth man.
Don't you think it's much easier and nicer to get married someone who is ordinary,
but who has motivation to "jump-up"?
I think so.
Why don't you find someone who wants to "jump-up"?
I will tell you how to find those guys!
◆ "if you want to find someone who can make you being rich,
you've gotta check here!!!"
You may be not able to believe this though,
you've gotta check men's umbrellas.
I heard that if you see man's umbrella, you could know that he is successful man or not.
So why don't you try it?
What kind of umbrella is your BF using?
●Men who are using umbrella which you can get everywhere and cheap.
-sorry to say though, they don't have that much hope for promotion.
●Men who don't carry umbrella even though they can tell it's gonna rain.
-well, sorry again though, those kind of men leave everything to chance.
they don't plan things... so they don't have that much hope for promotion either.
●Men who carry expensive or big‐name brand umbrella.
-he has really strong will to be promoted.
●Men who has really unique umbrella.
-Important things for them are their hobbies and their private life than work.
●Men who often forget or lose their umbrella.
-they are very creative.
As long as they have nice talent, he has a quite big possibility!
So how was it?
Which type is your BF?
Do you think you can find someone?
Well, go and get in the umbrella in next rainy day!!!
Good luck!
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I love to drink hot chocolate with a bit of Brandy in long autumn night!
See you next time!
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H P・・・http://for-precious.com/
relationship & marriage counseling for women , Precious
◇If you do not want to receive this e-mail magazine any more,
then please go to the blog site, and follow the process on there. m(__)m
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do you have confidence in your "face" ?tag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2008://9.4212008-10-03T11:05:59Z2008-11-09T12:25:00Z ...Kako
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・・・but I am not talking about "beautiful face".
Sad though, I cannot say "beautiful face is the most important thing for women!"
how can i?
( i don't have beautiful face ... )
I meant face for "expression".
and most important thing is "smile"♪
Men like someone who has nice smile even if she is not that pretty,
Men don't prefer to be with woman who doesn't have any emotion on her face
even if she is very beautiful.
I can assure about this!!!!
There is so many kinds of smile!
Smile when you laugh really hard.
Smile when you've done something naughty.
Smile when you made some mistake.
Smile when you're embarrassed.
.... and so on.
all those smiles are much nicer than being a smug looking♪（^-^）
what do you think?
But there are so many people who don't know about their "face".
Especially when you come to front of someone who you really like,
your put very awkward smile on your face...
( even though, this is the time you've gotta show the guy your cutest smile you've ever had!)
If you see women who can smile naturally any time and to anyone,
those women often do some practice and put a lot of efforts in their smile.
Well, I don't want to show off myself though・・・（^o^ゞ
I sften get words from other people...
" your smile is like Buddha! "
or
" your smile heals my heart!"
... thank you for all those nice words.
Being is counselor, I have to thank to my smile.
Because of my this smile,
people who came to me could really relax and could really talk to me.
Was it really sound like "show off"??
I am sorry. Lol.
Well, I really didn't mean in that way.
That was the story right now though,
before I was a gilr who really "homely"... really.
No one can imagine how "homely" i was before.
I have really big mouth,
and when I laughed, my voice was really sounded awful.
My brothers gave me an awful nickname from my laughing voice.
When I was in elementary school,
boys in my class often said to me
"it sounds super digcusting when you laugh!!!" ・・・(T◇T)
At the time I also had an awful hairstyle which was one of anime charactor had it,
that hairstyle was very cute for anime charactor, but it was not for me (＠_＠;)
I had a huge complex about my laugh.
When I became teenager,
I roused myself to make me change!!
And I started to check my smile front of mirror,
and I practied.. "how to smile nicely.
( I changed my hair-style too!)
Lately "smile class" is exist( which is the place people can learn how to smile nicely!)
But at the time when I was in the age which I needed to have those class,
there was no such a class or course.
So I did it all by myself
And I found out that smile is quite difficult thing!
Because I wasn't used to smile,
so I needed to make my muscle to used to for that.
What kind of shape is best for my mouth..?
What kind of face should my eyes make ...?
How does my face look like in total?
I used so much muscles in my face,
I always had a big sore in my face after that practice.
oh no...
My big discover at the time was my normal face!
My face was always like this →(￣へ￣) until there was some funny thing.
Because of my complex about my smile,
I was used not to smile,
so I looked like I was always in bad mood
Until I had started practice to have nice smile on my face,
I thought all my emotion was always on my face!!
So I didn't realise that I always looked like being in bad mood.
I am pretty sure that I was "homely" before.
I really wanted to change my self.
So I practied every night front of mirror,
and I always tried to do my best and put nice smile on my face during day time.
And what do you think what happened to me after all?
... People around me were changing attitude to me!
People who had been very brusque with me,
changed their attitide into very friendly and kind.
I just tried to ve very careful with my face( not to be like this→(￣へ￣) )
I didn't care about the way I speak.
So I noticed my emotion my face had changed their reaction!!!
In Japanese we say
" other people are your mirror!"
I learned it by my experience.
If you change, other will change!
Amazing thing was how much guys changed their attitude to me!
They changed into such a gentle man in the end.
So I thought "guys are such a kind creatures!"
amazing how much i and other can change, huh?
So I know now, men's weak point is women's smile!
Long time in Japan we said,
"white skin covers 7 troubles!".
But nowadays I think
"nice smile covers 7 troubles!"
I still have a big mouth though,
this month is very important for my smile!
so what do you think?
how is your face?
Do you have confidance in your "face"( smile )?
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◆ afterwords
see you in next blog!
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H P・・・http://for-precious.com/
relationship & marriage counseling for women , Precious
◇If you do not want to receive this e-mail magazine any more,
then please go to the blog site, and follow the process on there. m(__)m
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How to make your relationship successful!?tag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2008://9.4202008-07-18T11:00:18Z2008-11-08T19:21:55Z ...Kako
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"whaaaat? really? why? you guys were doing so well, no???"
Quite high percentage of my friends couples who were living together broke up in the end.
Even though each couples looked like they're doing well...
Every time I heard the news of broken up from each couples,
I really couldn't understand why they ended up in that way.
'cause each couples were doing so well( as far as i concerned ),
and they didn't even have a big issue or something.
so I've been wondering the reason why for quite long time...
...
well, this world is a big.
In the States, there is a scholar who was wondering exactly same thing what i was wondering.
and he did very interesting experimentation.
◆ how to make your relationship successful!?
psychologist; Roger Rosenblatt has done really interesting experimentation.
He asked 4 questions for couples who are living together and couple who are marriend
・ Do you sleep always same side of bed?
・ Do you have your own mug?
・ Do you have a wardrobe for each?
・ Do you have your own private space to put your small things?
As a result, marrige couples answered "yes" more than living together couples.
For human being territory is also very important like other animals
even though we don't think and feel about it.
For example,
when someone who is not close to you suddenly come close to you,
you would feel very or more land less uncomfortable, no?
that feeling IS your territory.
Clearly you don't want that person to be close to you.
We can say same thing for couples who are living together.
When you make sure that you and your partner have own territory,
that mean you're understanding each other by each not by "together".
When you share your territor with your partner,
it does look like you are close to him as much as you share.
But in fact
if you and your partner don't make sure about each territory,
it means you cannot accept your partner as much as you can,
and your partner is like air for you.
In Japanese we often say " he/she is like air to me! ".
( which means the parson is so use to being with him/her like air!)
Timing and power are very important to get married with your partner.
If you become "like air" to your partner
( or if you partner become like air to you),
There is no way we can find timing and power. （^-^；）
So what is important not to become "like air"?
I think you all guessed.
Yes, we need to have own territory.
It's very important to have your own private time and space without your partner.
( it doesn't need to be a big territory,
for example, you get your own mug or get tiny space!)
It's a small thing though, it will help a lot to make your relationship to be completed.
Women often would try to restrict men's time and space though,
if you would like to have happy future with your partner, then be patient!
I know it's easy to understand in the head,
but it's tough to bring it out for real.（^-^；）
You don't need to do big thing.
Why don't you try slowly and start from small things which you think you can?
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◆ afterwords
i am working hard to finish e-book for relationship.
I am writing about how can we success to get his heart?
Plus!
I am planning to give this e-book for free.
It's free though, there is so many things which are really usefull.
People around me are telling me it's much more useful than other similar e-books.
I will start it free!!
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I wish I can see you in my dreamtag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2008://9.4192008-06-16T14:03:19Z2008-06-24T10:59:57Z ...Kako
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◆ I wish I can see you in my dream
Comments;
I have BF now.
We're both first time to have partner.
and I had a dread last time.
In my dream there was the guy who I liked a lot, but it was one way love.
I suddenly had such a dream, so I was really surprised.
Thank you for your comments, YK.
I can imagine those things happen to almost everyone.
When you have someone who you really like,
the person never show up in your dream....
But when you broke up with him or you started to date with someone else,
then he suddenly showed up in your dream.
Has it ever happened to you before?
I have those experience.
When you like someone so much,
you made wish to see him at least in your dream before you went to bed.
But who you saw in your dream were people don't relate to your wish.
You tridd to see him in your dream,
but you got in lost and you cannot see him at all.
or
when you finally saw him in your dream, and gave him a big hug,
then he wasn't him....
technically it's really tough to see the person who really want to see in dreams.
But once the relationship finished, he suddenly appears in your dream far more often...
then you think "why!? it's too late!".
I guess everyone has those kind of experience.
no?
I thought back about those dreams,
and i noticed when I had those dreams, I was often worried about something.
I didn't have those dreams when i was happy.
So I checked the book of oneirocriticism.
From the book, it said
"when you see the person you love or you louved before in your dreams.
you're being hasty to get happiness in real world."
i don't know it's right for you,
but it was exactly right for me. （^-^；）
I often had seen the person who i loved in my dream,
when i were at my crossroads.
I don't about YK though,
she is also at her crossroad too.
It could be about her boyfriend,
or could be study or work... whichever it is.
anyway, as long as she can have nice relationship with her BF,
she will be fine, I am sure about it!
I will do my best to write this blog to support your love life!
plus, I am making "e-book" right now,
In this "e-book", it has a lot of Know-and-how for your relationship
which i cannot write on my blog!
I am sure it will help your relationship!
( it's just only japanese, sorry)
so please give me some more time!
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◆ afterwords
by the way, it has been long since i saw my ex-partners in my dreams...
Does it mean i totally forget about them?
well, may be i am too busy to see them!!!
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questionnairetag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2008://9.4182008-06-12T13:14:34Z2008-06-22T14:05:24Z ...Kako
08/Oct/2005 〈vol.40〉
I send you my love for you who have been reading my blog.
I send you my gratitude for you who have started to read my blog today!
I sent out questionnaires about my blog in this time.
thank you for everyone who answered my questionnaires!
and thank you for everyone.
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◆ afterwords
There is nice smell of fragrant olive everywhere right now.
This scent is one of the autumn scent to me.
Couple my friends said the scent reminds them an aromatic for the toilet.
I have to say they smell differently to me （^-^；）.
what do you think?
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guys' selfish, real feelingtag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2008://9.4172008-06-10T12:04:31Z2008-06-22T13:51:44Z ...Kako
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◆ guys' selfish, real feeling
"why did you break up with your ex-BF?"
M was asked by the question from her BF; S.
First she wasn't sure how she gonna answer that question.
But it happened quite long time ago,
and she thought he was asking that from his jealousy feeling,
so she decided to make him comfortable from her answer.
She told him how she met her ex, and what happened in the end...
then in the end she told him
"But I don't know why I loved him,
I love you more than him.
I don't care about my past relationship anymore."
But what happened afterwards was.....
He suddenly became very dry on her.
And she had no ideas why he suddenly became like that.
So she asked him about it so many times,
but he didn't answer her properly at all.
Finally, they fought because of his attitude,
and she said to him to " i cannot be with you anymore!!"
But she shocked by the words what S said back to her.
Which was....
"If we broke up, then you gonna say awful things about me like you said before."
"I wonder why you kept your memories with your such an awful ex nicely,
what am i for you!?"
She really wanted to say to him
"you're the one who asked me to tell you my past!!!".
But guys are really care about women's past.
( well, it depends on the person of course, but they are generally speaking!")
Guys are easily to get inferiority complex, so that's why.
She tried to tell him about her past in the way to show him her love.
But it didn't reach him at all,
and it came out from opposite to what she has intended
then should we talk about good things about our ex?
...
No!
It makes things worse!
"so, then, what should we say?"
When your BF wants to know about your BF in your past...
in that case,
you answer him lightly, and say good thing about your ex, for example he was also nice too.
and then you tell your BF that
He is nicer than him!
"you're the one for me!"
this words make man's feeling comfortable.
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◆ afterwords
women want to be his last partner.
men want to be her first love.
it's very interesting to me.
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how sexy can be disgustingtag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2008://9.4162008-06-08T12:00:25Z2008-06-22T13:09:19Z ...Kako
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◆ "how sexy can be disgusting"
The girl suddenly said to her BF...
"Look! this came off!"
I couldn't help myself to look at them...
and there was...
She took off her fake nail from her toes, and showed it to her BF.
"God! stop doing such a thing during our eating time!"
that BF said to her, of course.
"weeeell, i don't need this any more!!"
( she stuck it into rice!)
"BARF!!!!!! what are you doing?"
I can see her fake nail on her rice leftover.
( I really didn't want to see this at all.... disgusting!)
And her BF!!
After he saw all of that, he stood and went to for paying without any words.
・・・ well, I really can understand his feeling.
If I were if, I would done exactly the same!
I am sure their relationship finished right that moment!
They never can get back to together.
This story beyond the "sexy".
But anyway, man and woman.
I am sure your attract of woman caught your BF's heart,
and he started to love you.
But when time goes and goes,
you're getting so used to be with him, and relied on his love,
then you started to show him your true character...
Showing your true character is fine as long as you keep watching yourself.
"if he really loves me, he isn't gonna stop loving me!!
I am sure about it!!!!"
・・・ you'd better stop thinking things in that way.
I have to say stuck fake nail on rice is much beyond the line though,
but there is so many things you can lose your BF.
smoking while eating,
putting lipstick in public.
stocking after used on the floor... etc...
things give you sexy can be disgusting when you use them wrong way.
Be careful!
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◆ afterwords
Before there was a guy who was asking me too much,
so I started clean up my teeth with toothpick after eating just front of him.
Guess what!?
After that, he stopped asking me to go out.
well, i sometime wonder there is some problems with guys too.
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"your husband disappeared!? what you gonna do?" 2tag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2008://9.4142008-05-31T20:01:32Z2008-06-22T12:00:04Z ...Kako
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"well, stop crying!
I bet he'll be ok ( i hope so,,,)
How long hasn't he been home?"
"...(weeping), today he had a party.."
"ok, and?"
"well, he called me and asked me that he wanted me to pick him up.
And I've been waiting him here ... now already 1 hour!"
whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat!!
"arrr, you're saying that you've been waiting for one hour, aren't you?
is it really one hour?"
"no, not really, it's been two hours now,
oh, no... what should i do?"
I really thought he disappear or something...
I guessed she shouldn't do anything.
"!!!
Maybe I should make a phone call to his boss!
His boss should know something!!"
well,,,, hello! ヽ(・。・;
( there is no way i can talk to her...)
" Kako! do you think i can make a phone call to him?"
no! no! nooooooooooooooooo!!!!!
it's totally not a great idea.
If she call him, H is gonna be in trouble.
"well, why don't you calm down first,
I guess H took too much Sake,
and someone is taking care of him.
so don't worry!"
I could hear their kid's voice too.
It sounded like he was worried about his mom.
"I have to say, if he was alone on the way back,
then we should be very worried about him though,
he was with someone, so whenever he become better from alcohol,
he would give you contact!
so don't worry too much!!!"
"but it's first time to happen such a thing...(crying)."
Right.
Everyone needs to have "first time" and then get use to it.
I thought I need to stay talk to her till her stupid husband call her back,
otherwise she were panic enough to call everyone,
so I was keep talking to her about half hour.
then suddenly she said,
"oh! Someone is calling this cell phone so... thank you for talking to me."
And i guessed that is her stupid husband!
Finally he woke up（^-^；）
"yes, yes, yes,,, go home safely (T-T)ヾ(^^；)"
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Next day, Y called me back which was saying "thank you" and "sorry".
she said he came back in the end.
"I am glad to hear that.
and how is H doing????"
"he is eating Onigiri, i pass the phone to him（^-^）"
"ahahaha, hello! I am sorry about yesterday."
・・・ (-_-)/~~~ピシー!ピシー!
( he doesn't sound sorry at all!!!!!)
"well, you have "past", don't make Y too worried."
I was keep telling off to him.
He has a lot of things which i need to telling off.
Long time ago, he called me and asked me to change my day off and his,
'cause his son suddenly got high fever.
And it was middle of the night!
And I took the day off,
'cause i raised a tomb for my parents, and that day was Buddhist mass.
Plus I was telling that to H from long time ago.
But he thought about himself all the time, so of course he didn't listen my story.
He was very famous for "forgetting things very easily"... （^-^；）
I could call me much earlier than middle of the night... i suppose.
Well, he is not a man of sense, for sure.
and
I was lack of my sleep again, today.
But I am glad that nothing happened to them.
This couple has such a similar personality, i have to say.
I could say "they are perfect couple" in other way.
（・・・fin）
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A day after this "H and Y couple" story
My daughter said to me
" I think you're amazing, 'cause everyone comes to you and ask your help!"
" you think so? well, that makes a bit happy!"
" I really think so.
Look at you, you're living without count on someone!"
" that is not making me happy at all!"
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"your husband disappeared!? what you gonna do?"tag:reletionship.for-precious.com,2008://9.4082008-05-19T13:58:57Z2008-06-15T20:01:20Z ...Kako
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I was working with H for a year together.
At the time he was having some "past,
and it was he made his ex-girlfriend pregnant,
then he left her really bad way.
After that his guilt feeling toward her is getting bigger and bigger...
'because he found out that she gave a birth
and she was taking care of the baby at her house with her parents.
Of course he thought her and her parents hated him so badly,
but he thought or kind of made himself believe that he couldn't do anything any more.
So he was keep trying to forget his past,
and I noticed about his suffering face somehow,
so I asked him what was bothering him, then he told me his answer.
I really could understand his ex-BF's feeling really deeply on the contrary to him.
So I told him that she didn't hate him at all.
Moreover she must be believing him to come back to her,
and she'd been waiting waiting on you to give her some comtact.
Because if I were her, I would think in that way,
and I gave a birth and took care of kids too.
I even thought she and me were somehow similar.
Even though she was alone,
she decided to bring the kid into this world!
How brave she was!
And I really wanted her to be happy, and I really wanted to help her if i could.
So I told H the way i thought how his ex-girlfriend felt,
and I suggested him to get back together with her again.
( I was quite involved in between them)
・・・・ and now,
The girl who was giving me a phone call!!! she is the girl!
I was believing myself that they're living together happily ever after.
BUT!
I couldn't totally expected that such a thing would happen...
I felt very sorry for her,
'cause i was the one put them together again, and giving her a tough time again!
She was keep crying over the phone...
I really wonder where H disappeared （怒）
When I find him, I have to hit him!
And it was 3am at the time.
（・・・continue）
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◆ afterwords
What do you do your cellphone when you go to bed?
Do you turn it off or keep it on?
I am using my cell as my alarm, so I keep it on.
I hate to wake up by alarm clock's beeping sound.
It would be the best to wake up by the sound which i love.
don't you think?
anyway, see you in next blog.
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