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July 02, 2010

How to handle a sexually harrassing penpal - Final

25/Oct/'05
Vol.53

Hello everyone, it's Kako.
How are you going?

For those reading this mag the first time, nice to meet you =]

Today, we're going to be looking again at [how to handle a sexually harrassing penpal - Final]

Please refer back to 1,2 and 3 of the same title for previous cases & stories!

--------------------- CONTENTS ---------------------------------------------

* Theme: Case study [How to handle a sexually harrassing penpal - Final]

* Information on free counselling service

* Backstage stories

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June 12, 2010

How to handle a sexually harrassing penpal 3

24/Oct/'05
Vol.52

Hello everyone, it's Kako.
How are you going?

For those reading this mag the first time, nice to meet you =]

Today, we're going to be looking again at [how to handle a sexually harrassing penpal]

Please refer back to 1 & 2 of the same title for previous cases & stories!

--------------------- CONTENTS ---------------------------------------------

* Theme: Case study [How to handle a sexually harrassing penpal 3]

* Information on free counselling service

* Backstage stories

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January 10, 2009

how to handle your annoying e-mail friend? (2)

20. Oct. 2005 〈vol.48 〉


hi,

thank you for reading this!!

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ today's topic
real case: how to handle your annoying e-mail friend? (2)

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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December 29, 2008

how to handle your annoying e-mail friend?

19. Oct. 2005 〈vol.48〉

how are you everyone?
thank you for downloading my e-book!
I am amazed by myself.

thank you very very much!


What makes me really happy is
all the very nice and warm comments I got.


I've writing this blog( mail magazine ) though,
it's been always just seding some messages from my side to you, hasn't it?

But I'd been wondering how's reaction of everyone?
how did you feel about my blog?
and so on.


but it's same for relationship or married couple, don't you think?


You are the one who cooking so hard everyday,
your husband( your BF ) who eating it with silence.


"I wonder...
Isn't he saying anything cause it's good or bad?"

" I never understand him if he doesn't speak!!!! ><; "

see?
we do care about someone's comments, no?


so I am glad to know that you enjoyed the e-book, really ♪

thank you so much!


Thanks to you, I can work today again!!
you're giving me a big energy.


All those communication tools( e-mails or blong..)
which you cannot see the person who you're talking to.,
but this communication tools give you a nice opportunity to meet people !


I met so many soul mates by e-mail or via internet.

so I am positive about meeting someone by internet or mail.


・・・ but sadly,,,
there are also bad things too.


Sometimes someone who has a bad hope in his mind gonna try to reach you.

this time I will talk about how you should do when you get in bad situations.
I gonna tell you this with real case.

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ today's topic
real case; how to handle your annoying e-mail friend?

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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December 20, 2008

am i already talking about next e-book?

18. Oct. 2005 〈vol.47〉


how are you doing?
here i am kako!

I am so happy that so many people downloaded my e-book

Some people who colse to me told me that
there was so many words really packed, and a bit difficult to read!
so I changed a bit, and i uploaded again!

I changed anything inside,
but I put more spaces and chaged some setting,
so in the end there is more pages than before.


I am sorry about my clumsy way of doing.
and a big thank you from me!

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ today's topic
"am i already talking about next e-book?"

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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November 05, 2008

all the answers from last questionnarire

           17, Oct, 2005 〈vol.46〉

How are you everyone?

So finally e-book has came out.
It's been just for 2 days though, 200 people already downloaded it!
thank you so much.
( again, i am sorry this is only japanese.)

And thank you for nice message and letters!
Without you guys, there is no way i can do this, honestly m(__)m

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ all the answers from last questionnaire♪

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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November 01, 2008

e-book( Japanese only )

14, Oct, 2005 〈vol.45〉


How are you doing? Here I am Kako.

This time I would like to talk about my e-book which I've been working so hard.
It's sort of ad..
I will tell you about this e-book!


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ today's topic
"magic recipes for your love! e-book!"

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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October 15, 2008

how to find a wealthy man!?

13/Oct/ 2005 〈vol.44〉

how are you?
Here I am, Kako.

When I was working as marriage counselor,
I sometime saw women who joined the group to have counseling,
because they wanted to get married to rich men!
I have to say those women are not rare in this world.

Now I can think marriage and being in love are different things,
and I understand that marring into money is also one of the choices for marriage

I am pretty sure there are women who are reading this blog
want to marry into money (^-^)


So today's topic will be " how to find a wealthy man!"
(^0_0^)/


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ today's topic
"how to find a wealthy man!"

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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October 03, 2008

do you have confidence in your "face" ?

12/Oct/2005 〈vol.43〉

Hi, how are you guys doing?


Out of blue though,

do you have confidence in your "face" ?(^-^)

well, I have to say most important thing for women is face!
don't you think?

・・・ if I say such a thing...


"what's the hell she is talking about!!!!"

I might gonna provoke your antipathy... Lol


But I have to say cleary
"face" is really important for women!
I need to say this clearly today.

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ Today's topic "do you have confidence in your "face" ?

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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July 18, 2008

How to make your relationship successful!?

11/Oct/2005 〈vol.42〉

How are you?
Here i am, kako.


Have you ever thought about
"living together" is the closest position to be married?

Well, before I was thinking
living together is sort of testing time for marriage life.,


BUT...

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ How to make your relationship successful!?

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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June 16, 2008

I wish I can see you in my dream

10/Oct/2005 〈vol.41〉


Hi, how are you?
I am Kako!

Thank you for helping for my questionnaires.


From everyone's answer, what most people want to know right now were

・ how to keep relationship or even nicer
・ how to get back together

I would like to talk about those the other time!


I got interesting comments from questionnaires, so I would like to talk about it today.


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ Today's topic "I wish I can see you in my dream"

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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June 12, 2008

questionnaire

  08/Oct/2005 〈vol.40〉


I send you my love for you who have been reading my blog.
I send you my gratitude for you who have started to read my blog today!


I sent out questionnaires about my blog in this time.
thank you for everyone who answered my questionnaires!

and thank you for everyone.

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June 10, 2008

guys' selfish, real feeling

        07/Oct/2005 〈vol.39〉


Hi there, how are you?

Have you ever asked by your BF about your ex?
like " what kind of person was he?" or so.

And how are you gonna answer that question?
( or how did you answer?)

May be you gonna surprised,
but it depends on how you gonna answer it, you can break the relationship.


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ guys' selfish, real feeling

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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June 08, 2008

how sexy can be disgusting

06/Oct/2005 〈vol.38〉

How are you doing, everyone?


Few days ago, I saw unbelievable sight!
( i hope you're reading this with your foods)


I was in the restaurant at lunch time.
When i took my seat, there was already one couple a side front of me.

The boy was siting normally and eating his lunch,
but his girlfriend took off her sandals, and put her feet on her BF's lap,
and having her lunch.

If they're just two of them, it's ok.
Maybe it can be sexy sight, if they're alone somewhere.
But it was public place, and it looked dirty.

I could tell from her BF's face that he didn't like that,
But he was kind of giving up to tell her about it.
And of course she had no idea about his feeling.

Well, I could see it very well even i didn't want to see it,
'cause their seat was so viewable from my seat ><;

Then, I saw more unbelievable sight afterwards.

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ " how sexy can be disgusting "


 ◆ afterwords

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June 01, 2008

"your husband disappeared!? what you gonna do?" 2

            05/Oct/2005〈vol.37〉


Hi there everyone, how are you doing?

We always never know what is gonna happen
even if we succeed to get back together with your ex-partner.

how many people are having unsatisfied feeling about their partner,
and
how many people finish their life with that feeling?

・・・ well, i believe there is non.

Every couple take their own road to understand each other.
there is always though things,
and there is tough things, and other people involve.
but all those exist to make relationship stronger.

It's very important to prepared all the time.
"risk management"

You never can be totally rely on your life.
We always never know what is gonna happen in the future.
Something could happen to you today!


so, let's see what happened to H and Y.

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ Kako's now and future
"you guys ..."
    
 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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May 19, 2008

"your husband disappeared!? what you gonna do?"

04/Oct/2005 〈vol.36〉

How are you?

Lately I finish my work, and go to bed around 2:00 am

Last day, I woke up by my cell phone ring when i went to just asleep(*_*;


".... he. helllllooooo?"


・・・・ Is this the annoying phone call guy?
again?

"hello, Kako. (crying)
I am sorry for calling such a late time."

It was sound like woman!
Well, there is no way the annoying call guy has my cell phone number.


" ... wow, hey Y!
What's up with you around this time?
Is there anything wrong with H?"


Y is wife of my colleague from my ex-company.


" well, ,,,,, my husband hasn't came back home yet.
and I don't know what to do. (crying so hard!)"


I lost my sleepiness !!!! (@_@)
Oh, no!


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ Kako's now and future,
"your husband disappear? what you gonna do?"

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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May 05, 2008

"what do you think about getting back together honestly?"

03/Oct/ 2005 〈vol.35〉

Hi, how are you?


Today I am going to show you all the answers
which is from the questionnaires i sent out before.

I got a lot of answers from mostly student!
thank you for all your answers.
and plus, thank you for all nice messages.


I am thinking to give back nice presents for all of you in near future.
I hope you will like it.


thank you again.

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ "what do you think about getting back together honestly?"

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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April 22, 2008

Autumn! makes me feel...!!

01/Oct/2005 〈vol.34〉


Hi, how are you doing?

It's October from today,
so here is one story I would like to tell you.

This story based on when I was working for marriage counseling company.

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ Autumn! makes me feel...!!

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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April 21, 2008

national census

30/Sep/2005 〈vol.33〉

What things make women beautiful?

that is of course "LOVE"


well, but can we be happy just only by love?

I would love to get love and money!

then here is the blog perfect for you!
( sorry, it's just only Japanese...)


 http://www.mag2.com/m/0000163461.html


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ 『国勢調査』の前に、『カコ勢調査』♪

 ◆ 編集後記

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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April 15, 2008

i wanna be a beautiful! i want you to be natural!

29/Sep/2005 〈vol.31〉

hi there,
i am kako.
i hope all of you are doing fine.

and you're very new to read this blog, welcome!!


i am sorry to say this out of blue,

I got nice compliment from other people,
They're saying that

"you are cute, kako!!"

well, of course i was so happy to hear that though,

"i am not age for cute... ( but i am happy inside)"

"yes, you're cute, you look like "something"!!"


... well, they said "something" instead of "someone"...σ(^_^;)
it means they are saying something it's not human being...


"oh! now i know! Mumin(Muumi)♪"


・・・・ well, am i hippo?
( well, Mumin is not hippo they are troll.)

i prefer to be Snorkfröken...
( well, they don't look that different though...)


・・・ i told that story when i was drinking with my friends.

"you look more like "fumin"!!
it was nice of them even they're totally drunk.

I am not "something" anymore, i am "someone" now!


But ・・・・
I've been eating a lot, and i am changing into piggy now.


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ "i wanna be a beautiful! i want you to be natural!

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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March 30, 2008

questionnaire

               24/Sep/2005 〈vol.28〉

Hi, how are you?
I am kako.

If you are the one who answered the questionnaire,
thank you so much!


I hope you're having nice weekend!

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March 22, 2008

the phone call guy vs relationship counselor Ⅲ

23/Sep/2005 〈vol.27〉


Hi, how are you doing?
I am kako.

If you find out your BF has a past that he was making annoying phone call,
or he had such a strange past?

Do you have a confident to love him same as before?
Don't you have any strange feeling for that?

I wonder how his future is gonna be...
of course i am talking about this annoying phone call guy!!


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ Koko's now and future
"the phone call guy vs relationship counselor"

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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March 10, 2008

the phone call guy vs relationship counselor Ⅱ

22/Sep/2005 〈vol.26〉


Hi, how are you.
Thank you for reading! I am here again!!
And if you are first time to read this, thank you for coming here.

So here we go♪


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ Kako's now and future
    " the phone call guy vs relationship counselor Ⅱ "


 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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March 06, 2008

the phone call guy vs relationship counselor

21/Sep/2005 〈vol.25〉

Hey, how are you?


I think telephone is sometime scary 'cause i cannot see the person over the phone.
And especially if it's really strange phone calls.


Lately there is tons of strange news everywhere,
so that makes me more scary.

Originally creatures don't like dark place,
same as that,
we feel fear the person who we can not see over the phone.

But don't you think your imagination make your fear bigger and bigger?

Whenever you get into fearful situation,

please try to calm down!!

First of all, the person giving you fear is also human.
It's not like monster like a movie.
The person could have weak point as well.

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ kako's now and future
     " the phone call guy vs relationship counselor"

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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March 03, 2008

reason why he talks u about TV girls

20/Sep/2005 〈vol.24〉

Hi there, how are you doing?


well, even we say its autumn, don't you think it's too hot for that?

and that's reminds me...
This summer i got a lot of annoying phone calls
have you ever gotten once or twice before?

I hadn't had this for quite long time though,
this summer it has happened again!

It has unexpected ending,
So i would like to tell this story to you too.


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ Kako's now and future.
     "the phone call guy vs relationship counselor"

 ◆ His real feeling
"reason why he talks u about tv girls "

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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February 11, 2008

Short hello!

17/Sep/2005〈vol.22〉


Hi, I just wanna say short hello today.


I hope you're doing well lately.
see you in next time.


☆・・・・・・・・・・・・・・☆・・・・☆・・・☆・・☆・☆☆
      

        H P・・・http://for-precious.com/

      
relationship & marriage counseling for women , Precious

◇If you do not want to receive this e-mail magazine any more,
then please go to the blog site, and follow the process on there. m(__)m
☆・・・・・・・・・・・・・・☆・・・・☆・・・☆・・☆・☆☆

February 06, 2008

Can i get along with him, or not?

16/Sep/ 2005〈vol.21〉


Hi there, i am kako.

Have you ever thought about compatibility with guy who you're interested?

Everything was perfect at the beginning,
but after couple month later, things go wrong,
and then you will think about compatibility with your boyfriend.

I think everyone has those kind of thoughts once or twice, maybe more than that.

so that's why you're reading this. Lol


so I will tell you story about compatibility today.


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ Can i get along with him or not?

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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February 05, 2008

find his real personality from public position

15/Sep/2005 〈vol.20〉

Hi there,

Last time, I talked about how to see inside of men by psychology !
did you like it?

This time I also prepared psychology which we can see inside of men!
I hope you will enjoy it (^_-)☆

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ "find his real intention from public position"

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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February 03, 2008

how to measure his love?

14/Sep/2005〈vol.19〉

Hello there, I am kako.

thank you for reading this today,
stay here with me till the end (^o^)


------------------------------------------------------------

it's easy to like someone.

Once you like someone,
you can accept his good points and bad points...

i don't say that is good or bad thing,
but thing is once you like( or love) someone, you can not judge that is plus or minus...



"Love is blind!"


There is women who are confusing because of her BF's unreasonable words or act,
and they keep me being busy!!!  (@▽@;)


Relationship with man who doesn't love you as much as you is just only tough.
You never gonna get a happiness which you want to get.


I often hear that guys who were kind at the beginning are getting heartless during relationship.


Sad to say this though,
men's kindness(surface) and love is never be proportional.
I don't say it is inverse proportion though,
it's not proportion.


Last time, I talked about "don't measure men's kindness"


Even if you measure his kindness at beginning,
that is his way to make you like him.
So i cannot guarantee that he will have same kindness after.

That's why i said don't measure men's kindness.
(of course there is men who will be kind afterwards as well though, not that many...)


So point is we've gotta measure "how much he loves you" instead of measuring his kindness!!
it will be today's main story (^_-)☆


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ how to measure his love??

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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January 30, 2008

what is men's kindness?

              13/Sep/2005 〈vol.18〉


Hi there,
a happy Kako is here! (*^m^*)♪

Finally, my blog is within 100 in "popular blog"!!

and also this blog is number 5 in "famous blog"!!
↑( well. i have to say there is not many blogs in. Lol)


I would like to say "thank you" again!
     (((((((感謝)))))))

I wrote message for everyone in the end,
so please read this until the end!

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How do you measure men's attraction ("or should I say charm")?


How clever he is?
His shapes?
the way of his talk?
good to take care of other people??
...


I guess all the women could get a good impression of him
if he knows how to take care of women.

Even if he is not that cute,
as long as he can take care of women,
then he will be popular.

today's topic is gonna be "men's kindness" (^o^)


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ what is men's kindness?

 ◆ about counseling

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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January 14, 2008

how u can make chaces to meet guys

12/Sep/2005〈vol.17〉


Hi, I am Kako♪

Thank you for all your cooperation!
I got a lot of answers from my questionnaire(*^-^*)

All your answers are a big help to write this blog.


Do you remember the story
which i was telling how to get positive image of you(or how to become lovely person).
and if you remember that, have you tried something?

if you started to do something,
you really can change your negative image into positive image!
so keep doing it!!


But even you try to work on yourself a lot,
if you don't have any chances to meet guys...
it's gonna be a useless possession.
sad, huh?

So I will tell you this time about
"how you can make chances to meet guys"
(^_-)☆


But before I start my topic, I have important questions
which to know you are missing your good chances or not. \(◎o◎)/!!

Please answer this questions with your honest feeling!



Here is my questions \(~o~)/

【Q1.】
Do you think you actually have quite a lot of chances to meet new people(guys)?
or don't?

"・・・・・(your answer)"


【Q2.】

Are you a sensitive person for new chances?
Can you feel "chances" right away?
or not? 


・・・ I think this question is not clear, isn't it?

But this is today's big point (^0_0^)/!!


☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆ You are sensitive for new meeting chances? or not? 

 ◆ afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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January 12, 2008

questionnaires which I have done.

10/Sep/2005〈vol.16〉

Hi, I am Kako♪

what are you doing for your weekend?

It's will be nice mild weather for
going out with your BF, family and friend from now on.
it's fun, isn't it? 

I am also thinking to walk around Kyoto to relax(*^-^*)


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January 10, 2008

"new plan"

             09/Sep/2005/〈vol.15〉

Hi, I am kako!

I talked about how to get positive images of you! in last time♪

Well, I have a feeling that couldn't finish it properly,
'cause I was so sleepy when i was writing in last time.
If there is someone who noticed it,
I am sorry about it (^-^;)

I am thinking to write again about same theme in near future.


so today, I am gonna write about totally new thing!

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆who made this plan!? ... well it's meσ^-^;)

 ◆about "free" counselling

 ◆afterwords

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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January 09, 2008

right way to use fortune-telling to make a chance for your love(2)

               08/Sep/2005 〈vol.14〉


Hi, I am kako,

Last time I talked about that
fortune-telling is the good tool to find the image of you which your friends are having.
Have you talked about that with your friends?

If you've found out bad image of you from your friends,
then change it for good way!!
It's not that tough to change your bad image into lovely character.

I suppose it will also help you to meet people.


This time I will talk about":how to do change your image."


thank you for reading this today again (*^-^*)♪

~~ I hope your love will bring you to the place of happiness,
this is my wish.
and I write this with the wish (^-^) ~~

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆right way to use fortune-telling to make a chance for your love(2)

 ◆the words for all the "thank you" e-mail which I've got (*^-^*)

 ◆afterwords

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December 04, 2007

reason for being loved and guys real feeling!

               06/Sep/2005〈vol.12〉

◆This time I have a new topic with new corner for you!


thank you for reading this today again (*^-^*)♪

~~ I hope your love will bring you to the place of happiness,
this is my wish.
and I write this with the wish (^-^) ~~

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS >────☆

 ◆◇◆There is reason for being loved◆◇◆
    『 younger BF. older GF. 』

 ◆◇◆inside of guys feeling "their real feeling◆◇◆
    『I don't want my GF does this front of me』


 ◆◇◆afterwords◆◇◆

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November 06, 2007

"Kako's now and future"


                    25/Aug/2005〈vol.4〉

Hi everyone, how are you doing?


I hope your love bring you to the place of happiness.

I will write this with all my best wishes!

☆───────────────────< CONTENTS>────☆

 ◆Kako's now and future

 ◆news

 ◆afterword

☆─────────────────────────────☆

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Kako
Kako
Hello,
I am Kanoko Watanabe who is counselor from "Precious".
"Precious" is doing relationship & marriage counseling for women Everyone calls me "Kako".
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